Life On The Road Parts 7 and 8

Part 7


Hello, Gentle Readers:) This post got so long, I had to divide it into multiple parts! So the saga of our sojourn in Bullhead City will be told in two posts. Hopefully...
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It didn't take too long to get to Bullhead City, AZ from Kanab; it was around 300 miles--only around 5 hours in the RV. Patrick had booked our reservation at Davis Camp way back in the fall of 2012, at the same time he'd booked our Kanab reservation after we'd reached Camp Verde. Though we toyed with the idea of staying in Kanab through the winter of '13 instead of heading south, he never cancelled the Davis Camp reservation in Bullhead City (hereafter to be referred to as Bullhead). Turned out to be a good thing, since we changed our minds as the weather grew pretty chilly as fall progressed. We wakened to snow the morning of October 31st, our departure date.

The trip south was a steady drop in altitude as well. Kanab is just under 5000'; when we reached Hurricane, 70 miles west of Kanab, the altitude dropped to 3248'. Another 100 miles southwest to Vegas found us at 2001'. By the time we reached the rim of the Lower Colorado River Valley, we started a sharper descent that took us to 500' above sea level (give or take) at the bottom of the basin. The lower the altitude, the warmer it gets, so though we'd left snow at 8:00 that morning, by the time we arrived in Bullhead, the cold had vanished and we were warm again.  Leaving conifers, cottonwoods and mulberry behind, we now found palm, prickly pear and yucca.

Bullhead City, is a 'young town' on the Colorado River, having incorporated only in 1984. However, the history of the area goes waaay back, having been home to indigenous Mojave for hundreds of years. Spanish explorers reached the area as early as the mid-1500s; in 1864 the settlement formally became known as Hardyville and was a port of commerce along the river. The region is also dotted with many of the mines the 'wild west' is known for, now mostly played out. The construction of Davis Dam in the mid-20th century on the Colorado River gave rise to a community that came to be known as Bullhead City, a few miles south of the Dam. It was named after a huge rock in Lake Mohave that looks like...you guessed it...a bull's head. However, the rising waters caused by the dam submerged the stone and it can no longer been seen. The actual Hardyville is considered to 'have gone ghost', buried under Bullhead City.

Davis Camp was originally a sort of  'shanty town' built for the workers who constructed Davis Dam. There is still at least one gloomy old abandoned government building on the property, juxtaposed with ancient petroglyphs carved into nearby rock walls. Where temporary lodging once stood to house the itinerant dam workers, now you see RV sites, small vacation cottages, stone bathhouses and grassy areas for picnicking. And palm trees galore!

Directly across the river from Bullhead is Laughlin, NV. Laughlin is a kind of mini Las Vegas, being home to around eleven or so resorts and casinos. There is very little else there except for residential areas, two movie theaters and a few small market/convenience stores. Oh, and a nearly dead outlet mall, which by the time we left the area, was getting a shot of new life by new ownership. Most shopping is done in Bullhead, but if you want to go to the movies, you have to go to Laughlin!

South Beach at Davis Camp, AZ  Nevada on the other side of the river.

The population of Laughlin is around 7,400, while Bullhead's population is just shy of 40,000. As you might guess, much of Bullhead's population works across the river at one of the casinos, restaurants or resort hotels or in Bullhead in one of the stores, eateries or medical facilities. At night, you can see the glittering lights of the casinos across the river and hear the music floating down the river from the entertainment venues. This place was a far cry from our peaceful and remote surroundings of the Verde Valley or southern Utah! But the novelty appealed to me...at first.

View of Laughlin, NV across the Colorado River
from Davis Camp, AZ

Once we arrived and were assigned a spot, it took some doing to get our three vehicles into our site. It was on the short side, so Patrick had to maneuver in very tight and partially on the grass to unhook Ruby-Deaux. Then he circled around again and pulled in close to her and parked, while I parked the van perpendicular to the front of the RV. Though the length of the site didn't allow us to keep my little camper hooked up, we were lucky to get a site that had a wide 'yard' to our right. And a palm tree of our own! I thought that was so cool then, but later not so much! That palm turned out to be a condominium for dozens of pigeons and grackles.

Patrick was excited when we drove in, because right away he noticed there was no insulation on the water hook-ups as in all the other parks we'd stayed in. That meant it must never get cold enough for winter freeze-ups. He was pretty thrilled about that. (I told you we were easily entertained!) At any rate, we got everything parked, hooked up and began to settle into our new surroundings. I loved that we had such a great view of the river and the imported palms everywhere lent such a tropical look to the place.

Patrick sitting next to Ruby-Deaux
Then, unexpectedly, around 6 p.m. there came a firm knock, knock, knock at the door. Who in the world? No one ever came knocking on our door the first day we arrived at a park. Nobody knows us. Maybe they didn't like the way we'd edged Ruby-Deaux onto the edge of the grass and were going to make us move her. What a pain that would be!
Patrick opened the door and "TRICK OR TREAT!" Oh, good grief! We'd totally spaced that it was Halloween! And there stood three short, but 'terrifying' gremlins expectantly holding out treat bags. Well, two little creepy characters and and one princess waving a fairy wand rather recklessly.

Dear Lord! We had no candy!  We hadn't had trick-or-treaters in years. Why did they stop? The outside light wasn't on...in the midwest, you put your front light on if kids are welcome to stop. If no light, no one stops. We stared at each other, minds racing. "I know!" I said, and hauling out my stash of Hostess chocolate cupcakes, doled out one to each of the three little kids. "Thank you!" they chorused and off they ran. I had 2 cupcakes left. Hopefully that was the first AND the last of the trick-or-treaters. But, nooo. Fifteen minutes later, more were knocking on our door. This time Patrick had to sacrifice most of the remains of his Twinkies and I gave up my last two cupcakes to the five kids standing outside. "Well, if any more come, I only have one Twinkie left," Patrick said, glumly looking into the Twinkie box. We crossed our fingers. Bang, bang, bang, bang, bang! We stared at each other in alarm. Hopefully, it was just a lone kid, but there was a lot of noise outside for only one child. Then Patrick's eyes lit up. "The penny jar!" he said. I quickly grabbed it from the storage area under the dinette seat and opened the door. Six! Teenagers! I scooped loose change out of the cup and gave each one a handful.

"Great idea!" I told my husband when they were gone. "Quick thinking!" Mercifully, that was the end of our Halloween visitors. And that was our first night in Bullhead. Now here's the odd thing. We were still in Bullhead a year later and recalling the raiding of the Hostess goodies, we got 2 big bags of candy in preparation for Halloween. I even painted my entire face to look like a skull--it took me two hours! And not one single trick-or-treater showed up! What a letdown! What a waste of a great face-paint job!

The winter we spent there was great temperature-wise. It never got cold enough to freeze. But THE WIND! If I thought the wind at Meteor Crater was bad, it had nothing on the wind that rips up and down the Colorado River. It's nearly constant. It roars for days on end. It's absolutely maddening. But strangely, you get kind of used to it after months and months. And we learned that it didn't matter whether it was winter or summer---in the winter the wind comes from the north...and in the summer it blows hot from the south.

When spring came in late February, it was fabulous...for about six weeks. It began to grow very warm in April and by May it was hot. But we knew it would get even hotter. Here was the hitch. By this time in our lives, Patrick and I were beginning to grow tired. Not tired of the traveling, but fatigued. With his COPD, the simplest tasks were beginning to wipe him out. And some things I just could not do either; at my age I just don't have the strength... Staying put started to appeal to me. We decided to try to stick out the summer and give ourselves a travel break.

By mid-July, we were looking at each other and saying "What the heck were we thinking!? We must have been out of our flaming minds!" But we were pretty much stuck in that it was too darn hot to even escape. We couldn't think of putting good old Georgie Boy (the RV) through the hoops of trying to make it up out of the basin we were in. The incredible heat would take too much of a toll on our rig, not to mention the tires.The incline from Laughlin up to Searchlight alone was nearly 40 miles long; if we continued going north, it was all pretty much uphill. The prospect of trying it brought visions of major repair bills, smoking tires, and all sorts of potential calamities. We weren't willing to take the risk.

Imagine: 117° F. Thirty to forty MPH winds blowing gritty dust for days on end. Too hot for birds to even fly and they hop from patch of shade to patch of shade because the ground burns their itty-bitty birdie feet. The relentless sun beats down and your A/C hammers away non-stop 24/7; the coolest it will get inside during the hottest part of the day is 90°. One heat-beating strategy is going grocery shopping at 6 a.m. while the temps are still in the 90s before the heat becomes unbearable around 10 a.m. and all you really want to do is lay in a steamy, listless heap. It's like pre-heating your oven. You know how once it reaches temperature, you open the door to pop in whatever it is you're going to bake and you get that blast of hot air rushing out into your face? That's summer in Bullhead City. All day long. Every day. You stay inside or you are cooked--literally. A local remarked to us one day that he was thankful for the mild summer; he claimed the previous summer had been hitting 120° to 125° with great regularity. I just can't imagine how miserable that must be if our tolerance for heat started giving out past 104°. By the end of August, Patrick and I were shaking our heads at each other and saying 'Never again.' I was longing to leave, but Patrick argued that if we made it through this Bullhead summer, he deserved another Bullhead winter. (Meaning a winter without any possibility of freezing; he so hates being cold.) I acquiesced, but we began plotting our departure plans for the spring of 2015.

Till next time,

"Where do you want to go?" "Away." ~ Unknown



Part 8


Phase 2 of the Bullhead City saga:

That boiling hot summer in the Mojave desert served to cast a pall over the things I'd enjoyed the first six months we were there. Well, that wasn't the only thing. The other thing was the medical care. If we thought the weather was hotter than you-know-what, it was nothing to the absolute scalding we received obtaining medical care. That in itself is a bit of a long story, but suffice it to say, we began referring to the medical community in Bullhead as the 'Medical Mafia'. Seriously, I should write a separate post sometime about the bonafide fleecing we got through the unscrupulous practices that are common there, but I try not to get into online rants if I can help it. Mmmm.

What I did enjoy was not having to drive 70 miles to the nearest Walmart. There were several other nice, big grocery stores in town, as well. And a small mall! There were chain drugstores, CVS and Walgreen's! (As opposed to tiny homegrown pharmacies that were strictly utilitarian, i.e. no makeup, magazine racks or girlie goodies.) There was a JoAnne's! There was a Michael's! There were more than three restaurants! Including big name franchises! There were several fast food joints! You may be laughing, but I'm a shopaholic and do appreciate conveniences, so spending nearly two years in the boonies makes one appreciate the things we take for granted!

London Bridge in Lake Havasu
We took a couple of day trips to Lake Havasu to our south, now the home of the famous London Bridge. And Patrick got to meet a dear old buddy of his there that he hadn't seen in thirty years! That was awesome.We enjoyed little outings to Chloride and Oatman, which are considered 'living' ghost towns, meaning there are human (not spirit!) residents trying to keep the places alive by turning them into picturesque tourist destinations. Oatman, especially, with its population of wild burros roaming the streets has a fascinating story, found by following the link above.

really loved going to the turquoise mine near Kingman, which has its own shop. For a jewelry maker and rock lover, that was a little piece of paradise!

I was amazed to find the gravel parking lot outside the
mine store full of ground turquoise chips!

Cabochons, beads, loose stones, raw stones, uncut chunks, finished jewelry...you name it! They had other types of stones, too, including some gorgeous apple coral, but it was a turquoise store. A store full of turquoise! Imagine!


Some of my beautiful Kingman turquoise pieces.

Then in the spring of 2014, we got new residents in the park: a little family of WILD BURROS! They had wandered down into the river basin from Oatman and found a donkey Shangri-La in the comparative oasis of Davis Camp. I was thrilled and delighted to discover these critters would walk right up and eat out of your hand and let you pet them...for a minute. As long as you had food to give them, they were your best pal. As soon as the food ran out, "Adios, amigos!" and they'd promptly walk away. There was a female and two males; we called the old male 'Grandpa'. He looked rough; he was scarred and graying and didn't have much patience. In fact, he was downright crabby. By late May, as we were sitting outside enjoying the sun setting over the river, we watched the little burro family cropping grass nearby. "You know what?" I said to Patrick. "I think that female is pregnant." And I was right...she grew steadily bigger and bigger throughout the summer.

'Mama' and 'Baby Daddy'
Finally, in August, our neighbor shared the news with us that Mama had had her baby...and boy howdy! The local coyotes were mighty anxious to 'meet' that burro colt! But 'Grandpa' and the younger male that we came to refer to as 'Baby Daddy', kept them at bay. One day, my neighbor came over and said, "Mama's down at the other end of the park taking the baby for a walk, let's go!" Off we hotfooted it to that section of the park and soon spotted them. We parked and slowly approached. Amazingly, Mama let us get close and my neighbor actually petted the baby, while I took some pictures. He was only a week old! I didn't pet him that day but it wasn't long before the entire family came close enough to our site for me to get a chance to touch the fuzzy critter. He was so soft and just beautiful!

Baby Burro!

After a fairly quiet and uneventful 2nd winter, our departure time drew near in spring of 2015. We had been in Bullhead for eighteen months! At the beginning of March, I began packing up, chipping away at it a little at a time every day, giving the coach a good going over and getting rid of excess unnecessary stuff. We had a reservation for the 29th of March, a Sunday, at a park in Leeds, UT. just northeast of Saint George and just west of Hurricane. (Hurricane was where we used to drive 70 miles from Kanab to go to Walmart.) We wanted to get through Las Vegas on Sunday, thinking there would be less traffic that day.

There was a bit of anxiety, too. Patrick had not started the engine of the RV since he turned it off October 31st, 2013. I don't really know why not; he always did periodically start it everywhere else we'd been. Just a symptom of the apathy towards movement that had begun to set in on us, I guess. But we were yearning to leave Bullhead.

The Friday before the Sunday we were due in Leeds, Patrick climbed into the driver's seat of the RV and turned the key. Nothing. He growled. He turned the key again and Vrroomm! She started! Unbelievable! Sounded good, too! He let it run a while and said the next morning we'd take it to get the oil changed and all that good stuff. Saturday morning we unhooked the umbilicals and off we went. No problems at all! She ran like a dream; you'd never believe she had sat dormant for eighteen months. All went well at the lube place; we paid and began to pull out...when we saw two of the guys running after us shouting 'Stop! Stop!" What the heck?!

Patrick hit the brakes and one of the guys who ran up said, "You're pouring gasoline everywhere!" I think I may have suffered a mini blackout at that moment. Ok, that was dramatic, but I do have phobic reactions of terror to any kind of automotive malfunction. I don't know where that comes from, but the least little vehicle related setback sends me off in a panic. My sister tells me I'm a catastrophic fantasizer and she is absolutely right. In this particular situation, I immediately started envisioning having to replace the entire engine or some other horrifically expensive repair. Or worst of all, being permanently grounded in Bullhead. Forever. Noooooo!

While I struggled to regain control over my wild imaginings, Patrick asked if he could back it up and get them to take a look at it. "Nope. Sorry, we don't do repairs here; you gotta take it over to the repair shop." and they pointed in the direction we needed to get there. So, leaking gas all the way, we drove the two blocks to the repair shop. Inside, the manager was soon shaking his head, "Sorry, no time to look at it today. We're jammed. You'll have to bring it in on Monday." What?? You mean we have to drive this potential fiery explosion back to Davis Camp and then up here again? (Told you I was a catastrophic fantasizer.) Patrick on the other hand, got back in the rig and back to the RV park we went. He immediately set about calling the park in Leeds and telling them we would be delayed and hoped to be there on Tuesday.

Monday came and I followed Patrick in the van so we could go hang out somewhere while we waited for the RV to be diagnosed and fixed. At 4:00, the shop called and told us to come and get it. (No call with the diagnosis.) But it was fixed and the next day we'd be on the road to Leeds. Mmm, maybe not so much...we'd not had good experiences with repair shops in this town (for the van), and this turned out to be no exception.

We got to the shop and went in to get the keys and pay the bill, when the shop manager came out and asked, "How long have you had that stalling problem?" "Stalling problem?" we asked, "What stalling problem?"
"Well, we found the problem and we fixed it. You had a torn diaphragm in your fuel pressure regulator. So we put a new diaphragm in it. But when we went to move the RV back out into the lot, it kept dying. Took us forever just to get it out of the shop." We stared at him. "We've never had that problem before. In fact, when we brought it in, it was running like a dream...till the gas started leaking." "Well, I can't let you take it on the road, it's too dangerous." he said. "We'll have to look at it again tomorrow." I stared blankly at him and said, "Well, that's a problem. We live in that thing." Now he stared blankly at us. But he was a quick thinker and immediately offered to hook us up to the electric outlet behind the building in the back parking lot. It is not a fun thing to spend a night behind a repair shop anytime, anywhere. But it was better than nothing and we didn't want to pay for a motel.

Patrick called the park in Leeds again to let them know it would be another day and started looking online to see if any parts stores in the area carried the type of fuel regulator the RV needed. First thing the next morning, he was waiting outside for the shop manager, followed him inside when he opened up and proceeded to tell the guy that Such'n'such Auto Parts down the street had a regulator that would work and that they ought to just replace the entire part instead of trying to put a diaphragm in it...yada yada, car talk, car talk... (Patrick was a dealership parts manager for 20 years before he was disabled.) The guy said he'd keep that in mind and blew him off. We waited all day while they dorked around. Mid-afternoon, after no success with his own theories, the guy ran down to the parts store Patrick had mentioned, slapped the RV's regulator on the counter and asked the kid at the register if they carried any of those. The kid said blankly, "What is it?" Just then an older guy came out from the back room and said, "Oh, we've got a whole box of 'em!" The repair shop guy took one back, had his mechanic put it on ol' Georgie Boy and vrroomm! We were back in business! No stalling! No leaking! Hurrrrray!

Bright and early the next morning, April 1, we unhooked everything, Patrick backed the RV up to Ruby-Deaux, I got in the van and off we went. Across the river and barreling up the incline toward 95 in Nevada, Vegas-bound, I looked in the rear view mirror. Goodbye Bullhead! I confess I was happy to see it there...no more Medical Mafia, no more boiling heat, no more choking dust, no more inept repair people, no more constant 40 MPH wind...

Leeds, Utah here we come! Woo-hoooo!

Till next time,


“Oh the places you'll go! There is fun to be done! There are points to be scored. There are games to be won. And the magical things you can do with that ball will make you the winning-est winner of all.” 
― Dr. SeussOh, The Places You’ll Go!


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